Here’s the crazy part though—each side doesn’t see the others’ comments. Even when they keep scrolling down, women don’t see the pro-boyfriend comments. The same goes for men and the pro-girlfriend comments. They don’t see both sides, just their side. It’s like each user is experiencing the crowd’s reaction in their own isolated world.
Remember that you are the target and you have to take active steps to move out of the firing line. Social media platforms are not incentivized to give you a true or complete picture.